How to Ask a Girl For a Date

What separate a man from the boys; one of the answer perhaps would be marrying the girl of his dreams after tough grind from years or months of courtships and maintaining affectionate relationship. However to get through the uppermost ladder rung one should withstand the ordeals of asking for a date. For a starter, asking for a date is very fragile for a simple mistake could spill disaster that could ruin chances of winning the heart of his coveted dream girl.

The very first date will go down as one of your most unforgettable moments. This is actually an opportunity to get to know each other exploring each other’s likes and dislikes, interests and even hobbies. So its all worth your effort to be at your best when dating.

To ask a date (for guys) there are certain rituals that should be followed to allow smooth transition of sequences before asking someone for a date. Here are some tips that will help you boosts your chances to nail date with your cherished girl.

1. Find the right girl for you. Aside from physical appeal and personality, you might consider her values, relationship with God and nice attributes (like sense of humor, friendly, talented, and smart).

2. Venue. A dinner in a restaurant is a brilliant idea but make sure you choose the most suited place and time of your date. If you’re going to watch a sports event the location and time have been all set by you smoothly.

3. Get the Facts. Be sure the time, date and place of your date is safely written in a small paper which you can readily place in your wallet for future need or store the information in your mind, if you have a sharp memory. If the girl turned down your offer for a date, it is a good idea to keep on courting her who knows you’ll hit the jackpot sooner or later, but if you see signs that the girl is not interested in you it’s about time to find another girl.

4. How to Give Invitation in a Nice Manner. Asking her for a date is the most thrilling yet trickiest part of the courting process, because most of us are afraid of getting rejected. Approach her and offer a date when she is alone, this is the perfect time to have a conversation and to give invitaion. Some would use phone to ask instead of doing it in person. While during conversation with the girl, try to be polite and clever, listen carefully and laugh at all her jokes even they are corny when necessary.

Avoid making questions about personal habits and schedule, that’s none of your business. Don’t be negative with all of your replies. Don’t ask questions that can be answered with short answers like Yes or No.

Make your invitation as if she’ll like to accept it, hehehe, like with the phrase “Would you mind going to a Chinese Restaurant, I’ve heard that they have great menus to choose from, I think it would be great if you’d like to go with us/me".

While talking to her remember not to get intimidated, don’t talk too fast, don’t mumble as if you don’t know what you’re doing this will surely get her disappointed.

5. The Much-Awaited Girl’s Answer. If she said yes, congratulations you made it, but hide your excitement, avoid being too grateful. This reaction might give her an impression that you have never dated before, nyahahaha.

Make sure you get all the necessary details she needs to know, where to meet her, will you use a car to pick her up, does she need to be formal with her dress, etc.

If she however, declined you, pay attention to her answer and statements. Don’t get very disappointed when she says no, instead of getting lonely, stay calm and put your act together then ponder and analyze on the "No" answer she gave you. Did she said “No and It’s final!” or “I’m afraid I can’t go out with this time, I hope you’ll ask me again next time.”

The “No, its final,” this response mean she has no time and not keen on making time for a date. However, with this reply: “I’m afraid I can’t go out with you this time, I hope you’ll ask me again next time,” response shows bright hope since the gal is interested and want to go out with you in a right time.

1. Be the best man you can be, Make sure that you’re always ahead of the girl, open the door for her everytime, offer and arrange the seat for her, assist her when necessary, know when to say "Excuse me" and "Thank you" at the right place at the right time.
2. Be yourself; don’t sound as if you’re boasting while talking. Be calm all the time, its okay to be slightly nervous at start but as your conversation goes further try to feel comfortable and relax.
3. Be polite and clever with your conversation.
4. Pay attention to what she is saying and reply her with plausible and smart answers.
5. Laugh at all her jokes nyahahaha, girls love this much even most of them are corny. Also use your sense of humour if you have some nyahahaha.
6. Bring with you some gifts like a stuff toy, a bouquet of flower, chocolates or anything that would give good impression about you and could lift her spirits up.
7. Fetch the girl to her home and be very thankful to her. Ask her again for a date in advance.
8. Use spontaneity in your actions. Let your behavior reflects you really appreciate being with her.
9. Don’t plan too much about your itinerary. Let both of your mood dictate your activity, but always keep on mind your safety.
10. Be responsible for all of your actions; always keep on mind the consequences if you’ll commit mistakes in your date, you might end up a goner nyahaha, be careful. Goodluck.

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