How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You (Even More)
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Your girlfriend is perhaps one of the most important person in the world as it makes your world go around and truly your inspiration to overcome the hustle and bustle of life...
As the cliche goes: "It takes two to tango," and your future wife might be your present girlfriend.
Men are prone to heartaches, and like women they cast doubts about the sincerity and love poured on them by their girlfriends. If you have a girlfriend don’t be too sure that you’ll keep her for good, that is, for a lifetime. Nothing lasts unless you made the necessary things to make the love between you binding and everlasting as you keep the feelings for each stronger more than ever. It all boils down on how you keep the relationship works whilst you are carrying out the duties of a very responsible and loving boyfriend.
Here are some tips or pointers to keep the love between the two of you enduring:
Let her know that you have personal ambitions to achieve and dreams to make come true. Don’t make this as a weakness on your part, but rather a strength. Showing her that you are not weak, by striving hard to have a bright future.This will make your girlfriend fall in love with you further, besides most girls prefer security over good looks and physical features. Don’t forget to let her feel that she is part of that great goal you have, though.
Keep interested at all times. Girls love to talk and I mean, they do it a lot, well for most of them so as to speak, hehehe. Listen to every word she utter thoroughly and with genuine sincerity. Lending your ear to her will certainly make her feel that you are sincere and you really care for her.
Don’t take your girl for granted. Majority of girls nowadays are insecure, so it is a must for you to get rid of the insecurities on her. Show her always the right path and respect her personality and ideas at all times.
Spend “quantity and quality” time with her. The time you invest on a relationship is actually a way of getting to know each other very well like each other's weaknesses and strengths. Quality time is the way to let her feel that she is very important to your life as you shower her with tender loving care while the two of you is having a meal or snack at your favorite restaurant, telling unending stories and jokes, and doing other memorable things together.
Get back to the basics often. Flowers, chocolates and love letters are time-tested weapons in subduing your girlfriend’s battlegrounds, nyahahaha, these are also effective, as a way of a potent peace offering when both of you are ensnared with misunderstandings, heated arguments and quarrels.
When things get shaky and volatile settle the difference the quickest time possible, but be sure to have the right time in doing so. Let her cool for few hours, then when it is time to strike, do anything just to shake-off her temper and anger, like making jokes (funny or corny go ahead), or by simply being so sweet just to tame her, and say sorry and ask her why she got angry with you, to discern what moves you'll do next to subdue the fire. Don’t let the next day comes without solving conflicts and differences. It is better to lose some measure of pride sometimes than to lose a precious girlfriend.
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All the comments are great thanks
shy to be near girls and i can not talk with girls or ask girl for date please help me here
gr8 tipx 2 gt wat u want...
Look guys stay cool and chilled, care about her but not over the top only at certain times when she is vulnerable it goes in a whole lot better then she appreciates you more. Don't shower her with roses all day keep your distance like they say the heart grows fonder, the more she misses you the more you miss each other, you appreciate the time spent with each other when u don't see them constantly another thing is guys TRUST you don't trust your girl friend then it is god dam pointless being with her if it happens it happens weather she finds someone else or just does not wanna be with you no more. If that ever does happen you do what your supposed to do be a man grow a pair of balls and get on with it, because at the end of the day she has made it easier for you making the desision that she was not the right one. Remember there's plenty more fish in the sea and by the way variety is the spice of life ;)
I think love with a women is harder than anything you could possibly do in life.:(Most women are controlling and make you do everything when they thank it's ok when they dont well thats when you put your foot down and do whats rite and make her love you more to where she wont cheat on you anymore or do other stuff behind your back.(:It's easy just make her love you more by trusting her every move and listen to what she has to tell you and beleave her whatever the consequences are and thing will get better.Just show her the real you and if she don't like it then you don't need her or just be single everything's better that way without worry all the time but that's your choice just make the rite one.(:
how bout guys? cn you make one? ^^
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I like the points u made in your article ESP d listening part to what ur gal talks about even though she may b talking OP sometimes jus listen. Lol. And the part of lettin her cool off before u go settling ur scores that's cool too. Lastly to all lads,swallow ur pride and kip ur good gal by jus saying "I'm sorry dear". Hehehe!!
what to do if you try by all means to show that you love your girlfriend and you really serious about her but only to find that she don't love you?
i love my girlfriend to bits but i think sexaul thoughts about other girls i have even done it while having sex with her is this a bad sign. and shes realy realy sexy i didnt start doin this until like 6 months in the relation ship. am i a wanker or is this normal
wow i maby 9 but i loke fine
im a guy I think its a bunch of great ideas :)
Great advises, generalhowitzer.
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I Am absolutely crazy aout my girlfriend but , she dosent seem to notice , im allways saying i love you asking her about her day and not going overboard , i simply just want insight on what exactly might be going on (PLEASE NOTE) myu girlfriends mom is crazy literaly , and her dad was hardly arround so this might be the source of her wierd emotions ?
my girlfriend love me, but she doesn`t talk enough in mobile she keep silent !! can saomeone help me. or tell me what i can do please
Ok y do girls think men all was doing some wrong wind we at work. I love my girlfriend with all my hart. I just can't see it or put it in place. Can some one help me. Or tell me what I can do.
Well u c ive got this problem alot of girls i know like me a real lot and the reason i know this is from their closest friends but my problem is that i cant date any of them because of my families tradition of the girl asking out the guy which has a big part of my psychie what should i do
Great article which sound cool.
Awesome! More guys should pay attention to this :)
Excellent write up which sounds real, i think i will give it a trial.
im sorry if what im going to say is too criticizing, but hey... its just opinion from my point of view, not tryin to be a smart ass too.. but from my experience, life is just a circle... i believe that whats meant to be is meant to be... sometimes its not always our fault that a relationship ends... its just " meant to be " there is always reason for everything in life.... thats logical i hope... again.. im not one of those ppl in internet who just give comments to piss people off... its just criticism from my point of view.. see love as a comedy... a beautiful and painful comedy... marriage? that is beautiful of course... but inside , not every marriage is happy... every women is different, every man is different, lets just get to the point... its just another pointless discussion and roller coaster topic if i keep going... . we cant apply this rule to every relationship... its all about the guy keeping his alpha male position in one relationship, without hurting its female... i wont call the female follower because its not in that way... woman needs alot of things i presume... but they don't constantly want it too... we have to keep the balance depending on our situation of relationship.. personally i don't believe long distant... the point is everyones different... this tips you gave is useful.. but you need to give more examples and perspective towards your point of view... try to express your ideas in a bigger perspective point of view... that way your knowledge can be respected even more... haha.. i talk too much... please give me criticism anyone... i will respect any comments and other perspective thus above clouds, there are even higher ones.... there's always someone smarter than me out there,,,,, sorry if i disrespect anyone in any kind of way... PEACE
Cool hub with cool write ups which is very enjoyable.Thanks for sharing this article,i love this.
good article,thanks
I'm sorry...is it just me? This whole - how to keep your girlfriend article makes the "hypothetical" girl in question sound like a moody, insincere, insecure, slightly Narcissistic bitch. Since when is it a mans responsibility to manage female emotional issues? Her insecurity is HER problem - and if she really DOES love you - you'll find you won't have to jump through thousands of hoops or constantly provide evidential proof. This is not real love - its called conditional love.....a sure fire way to "bargaining" in a relationship. MANY guys out there do all these things in the misguided belief that they will eventually be rewarded will all the love they need. Oh so often do these men find themselves emotionally shafted, scratching their heads at the end of it all asking "what the hell did I do wrong, i did everything she asked of me....I played the role of the understanding emotionally sympathetic modern man?"
The truth is chaps....if you really want to keep your woman and if you believe she is worth the hassle....do THE EXACT opposite of everything this article tells you....because despite what many woman will tell you....the LOVE drama and contradiction! :D
nice for all guys who have problems in relating to women
Awesome hub! These tips are sure to make any relationship stronger. I particularly like the "quantity AND quality time" advice. I'm unattached right now, but when I do have a girlfriend I'll know what to do :)
hmm!!, this hub really make me for think, actually here what you given instruction for boys, thats doing my girl friend for me!!.. and i m just quite!!, actually i m not more talkative, and i also cant more talk upon unnecessary things, here peoples are talking till above 1 hour with our girl friend on phone, and they what talking till that, i dont know!!... because, my all talking matter finishing just in 5 minutes, after thats, no left any matter for talk, may be, that’s why my girl saying to me "You are so strange from other peoples" and some time she also teasing me by to say “when u do fight with me, I should be give party to my all friends”!!.. hahaha... well!!, I should be try to fallow your instruction,!!.. thanks bro, its really nice hub!!
Hi! Very useful info! The key point is... never take your girl for granted! Good advice -- Thanks
Hi! I like your article. You should give a lecture to guys who take their gfs for granted. yes. girls just loooooove to talk!!!
Pretty sound advice.
Pretty universal stuff. Being a guy I like all the same stuff listed
Thanks a lot Butterbee for he lovely comment...
Delightful and full of wisdom and the same measure you will take to please your girlfriend should B taken to please you (boyfriend).
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Great hub! Now I am an instant fan! =)
rebu - i hope it will thanks a lot for the visit...
nice one..hope this works out for me...!!
Hehehe thanks for the visit Maita!
hmm, dont take your gf for granted, absolutely SIR GH! Maita
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That's cool, always keep the sparks :)
raj 3 months ago
you must know the girl before you make relationship with her. once you decided to commit do shake it any way , it will break your own heart in silence,and alone in your own mind.